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The Rosemary Magic: Ultimate Solution for Thicker, Healthier Hair

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Welcome to the debut of my blog series focused on must-have products! In this space, I’ll be sharing links to genuine, high-quality items available through Amazon affiliate pages. Today, we’re kicking things off with a deep dive into the transformative benefits of rosemary oil—a true game-changer for your hair care routine and overall wellness. Let’s jump right in! Pic credit: Dreamstime.com Why Rosemary Oil? The very first and most common question that will pop in your mind is why Rosemary oil? It has been celebrated for centuries for its remarkable benefits for hair, alleviating inflammation, promoting hair growth, Increasing blood circulation and reducing stress. While it offers, so many other benefits, we'll talk more in detail about the benefits of hair Here’s why it should be a staple in your hair care arsenal: Stimulates Hair Growth Rosemary oil boosts blood circulation to the scalp, which can activate hair follicles and support hair growth. If you’re seeki...

Modern Love: A Reflection on Tolerating the Intolerable

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Picture credit: New York Times  As I write today, my mind feels like a tangled mess of emotions and thoughts. There's so much I want to say, so much I've observed, but sometimes it's hard to find the right words to express it all. Yet, here I am, determined to unravel some of the complexities that modern love presents. Love. It's a word that carries so much weight, so much meaning. But what happens when that meaning gets distorted? When love becomes synonymous with pain, with sacrifice, with tolerating the intolerable? I look around me, and I see it everywhere. Friends, acquaintances, even strangers on social media, all sharing their stories of love gone wrong. Stories of compromise taken to the extreme, of sacrificing one's own happiness for the sake of someone else's. And I can't help but wonder, why? Why do we, the young and supposedly enlightened generation, find ourselves trapped in relationships that bring us more pain than joy? Why do we tolerate beha...

'Im'- Moral Expectations of an Indian Parent

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  India is a country I am happy to have been born in for a number of reasons, including its deep-rooted culture and beliefs, emotional attachment to everything, our cuisines, our way of thinking about certain things, our long-standing, scientifically validated customs, etc. However, with time, it also becomes a place where the expectations of everyone there, especially the parents, are unreal, unethical, and frequently unkind. Years ago, there was news of a couple suing their son and daughter-in-law for not having a child. The reasons given for the lawsuit were illogical and therefore unacceptable to me, but this was just one instance of many that occur . The customary Indian parenting practise is to have children for  1. We desire to play with them 2. We want to ensure that he would support us financially and take care of us as we age, among other things. 3. The requirement to reproduce in order to pass on our genes, etc. Even though reasons 1 and 2 sound nonsensical, they ac...

Lets' stand Different & Bold

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A very big hello, to my peeps there on the other side of a digital screen. I haven't updated anything to my blog in a while, so when I logged in today, I was pleased to discover that the visits were still rising despite the fact that I hadn't added any new content.   My blog today is about a recent event. In general, I don't give a crap about, but taking a big decision of staying or not too has to be given  itt a hought since it involves money. Not that i am money minded, but at the same time, i couldn't ignore that money is almost everything.   Before I start writing in cursive on my laptop, I'd like to know what inspires you to leave for work each morning. Is it Money?  Is it Knowledge?  Is it Fame?  Is it your crush in the office?  Or is it simply leaving the house and disregarding the mess that occurs or will occur frequently every day?   Well, whatever it is, if it's not a respectable place, you won't wish to stick around for ...

For me its Fatherhood...💓

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How Happy do i Look?  The Man in this picture is not my Grand Daddy but my Daddy, my Papa. Since the day i have gained consciousness, i have seen him by my side, always.... From giving me a bath in the tub,to feeding me milk from the bottle,  taking me for a morning walk in his arms, watching rabbits with him in the garden, to cherishing the view of water fountains, giving me scooter rides, to taking me to school and back. I grew up in his arms and played all sorts of games with him.  Fom the time he being my favourite horse to ride upon to playing chowka Bhara, papa i grew up. There was a time when i used to sit with him on sundays and he used to open up our favourite Black suitcase, where he preserved all my childhood memories. The miniature coke bottle, Cricket eraser set, small shells, pebbles, lighting boat and clapping monkey toy. He was the only man in my life, i have no bad memories with, or the memories where he has scolded me ever. I was certainly his favou...

I want it again, But this time....

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Hello Everyone Saturday evenings are now a bit smooth for me as i have off from work  But lately, i have been  thinking a lot about the trending new love, which is not my cup of tea  I don't know how many of you feel like I do. But This post is definitely about something that we are losing and I am not liking the fact and the change. I know we love people around us, you might be in love with your spouse or a person you are currently dating. You might be exchanging gifts on occasion or just like that to make each other feel a little special, you might be surprising your loved ones with a midnight birthday cake or scented roses and everything that a lover should do to keep up the spark in a relationship. But Are you actually communicating?  I don't mean Talking, I mean listening, understanding, and then adhering to what you just discussed or agreed upon. That is what communication is all about when you comprehend.  We have fashioned love like its something trendin...

Unlearning and Relearning Love

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  The kind of a lover I was has changed from 2010 to 2020 and I am feeling all new towards the end of 2021.  Recently, I have experienced something painful that is making me feel all light like a feather and has given me a new perspective towards things and relationships around me.  Whatever happened so far in life and whatever will happen, I feel that is just making my life rich in experiences, after all, we all are here to learn new things, to know different perspectives, to respect every kind of wrong and right.  The kind of a lover I am now at present is a confused one, who wants to give her all, however, is afraid and clueless to know where to stop?  sometimes you have to let go of your self-respect and that pinches a hell lot inside. I have become that kind of a lover who wants to stay with a man and can ignore everything which I would not have ignored earlier in my life, but recently I realized sacrifice and loving unconditionally is what it takes to melt...