Lets' stand Different & Bold

A very big hello, to my peeps there on the other side of a digital screen.

I haven't updated anything to my blog in a while, so when I logged in today, I was pleased to discover that the visits were still rising despite the fact that I hadn't added any new content. 

 My blog today is about a recent event. In general, I don't give a crap about, but taking a big decision of staying or not too has to be given  itt a hought since it involves money. Not that i am money minded, but at the same time, i couldn't ignore that money is almost everything. 

 Before I start writing in cursive on my laptop, I'd like to know what inspires you to leave for work each morning.

Is it Money? 

Is it Knowledge? 

Is it Fame? 

Is it your crush in the office? 

Or is it simply leaving the house and disregarding the mess that occurs or will occur frequently every day? 

 Well, whatever it is, if it's not a respectable place, you won't wish to stick around for long & that's what is keeping me in dilemma. 

 I've come to learn that people have this obsession with describing everyone else using an adjective that need not accurately represents them. and within a second it becomes their ' convenient' habit which irritates, disrespects and mentally tortures other people around them.

Since I have been hearing so much about things that are personal or have nothing to do with my professional development in my professional setup, I don't understand the distinction between personal and professional words, anymore. Too much candor in speech, actions, gestures, dress, and work should not be encouraged professionally, but tragically, all of this is acceptable and is referred to as a "pleasant atmosphere." 

 Well, who needs this kind of pleasant environment in the workplace? 

 It's important to draw an invisible border between friends and coworkers in order to maintain everyone's respect and decency. In fact, it is not about personal, professional, friends, and foes, it should be for every relationship that you have (irrespective of choice)

1. Take consent for your words, actions, and behaviors  

2. If not verbal, look for expressions as a consent

3. Keep your eyes open to clues

By your words, gestures, or actions, you can be inflicting harm on those around you. Sometimes this is done on purpose, other times accidentally, and occasionally it develops into a grating habit.

I'm confident that we all took "Moral Science" in school, a subject whose true objective was to teach kids about morals and principles, right and wrong, and values. But regrettably, neither one of us felt the need to rewrite it for adults nor did any of us retain those values.

I am among those who value professionalism greatly, from formal greetings to professional viewpoints that allow for constructive criticism, working in cross-functional teams to achieve project goals rather than the usual ones where who does what, how much, neglection and attitudes of inferiority superiority play a significant role.

This kind of culture throughout the company's structure plays a critical role in feeling invaluable, afraid, disrespected, and disinterested to join for the very next day. well,' another mental trauma in a fast-moving life.

How to cope with such an environment?

Is leaving a job answer to it?

Having friends at work is a nice idea, but it is not required because it can be challenging to determine who might be a threat due to political objectives.

1. When it makes your heart race or makes you afraid of the consequences, speak up and be assertive.

2. Be bold, and try not to stay dumb, like 90% of others (It's good and difficult choice to stand up, be different, to and grow influential, This is something which is important for your personal growth if you aspire to be a strong man/woman

3. Practise self-praise- give yourself an extra dose of love and push for such days. Remind yourself of your potential and believe that success today belongs to those who make the toughest decisions, live, a tough life and go through the downfalls. 

4. Maintain your composure and self-confidence. I am aware that there are times when stress hormones flood your system, rendering counseling seem ineffective until you begin to feel normal again and realize that your belief is all you have to rely on in trying circumstances.

5. Do what makes you happy, whether it's writing, bitching, dancing, or crying; whatever it is, do it to lighten your load.

6. Last but not least, trust that everything is happening for your benefit and that it was designed that way. Hard times may bring about some good, but only if you believe that.

Let's count on it and believe in the power of positivity.

And, If you have been troubling people whether purposefully or unwittingly, stop now and let us be professionals where it is needed and necessary & stand for others when you come across such unprofessional behaviors.

In the middle of every difficulty lies opportunity.” maybe i will start exploring that too :)