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I want it again, But this time....

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Hello Everyone Saturday evenings are now a bit smooth for me as i have off from work  But lately, i have been  thinking a lot about the trending new love, which is not my cup of tea  I don't know how many of you feel like I do. But This post is definitely about something that we are losing and I am not liking the fact and the change. I know we love people around us, you might be in love with your spouse or a person you are currently dating. You might be exchanging gifts on occasion or just like that to make each other feel a little special, you might be surprising your loved ones with a midnight birthday cake or scented roses and everything that a lover should do to keep up the spark in a relationship. But Are you actually communicating?  I don't mean Talking, I mean listening, understanding, and then adhering to what you just discussed or agreed upon. That is what communication is all about when you comprehend.  We have fashioned love like its something trendin...

Unlearning and Relearning Love

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  The kind of a lover I was has changed from 2010 to 2020 and I am feeling all new towards the end of 2021.  Recently, I have experienced something painful that is making me feel all light like a feather and has given me a new perspective towards things and relationships around me.  Whatever happened so far in life and whatever will happen, I feel that is just making my life rich in experiences, after all, we all are here to learn new things, to know different perspectives, to respect every kind of wrong and right.  The kind of a lover I am now at present is a confused one, who wants to give her all, however, is afraid and clueless to know where to stop?  sometimes you have to let go of your self-respect and that pinches a hell lot inside. I have become that kind of a lover who wants to stay with a man and can ignore everything which I would not have ignored earlier in my life, but recently I realized sacrifice and loving unconditionally is what it takes to melt...